Saying goodbye to your cat is undoubtedly the most difficult part of being a cat parent. Our furry feline friends often hide their discomfort which can make it difficult to know when the end may be near.
If your cat is aging or has a serious illness, understanding the classic signs of decline can help you prepare emotionally and make their final days filled with love and comfort.
Read on for the most common signs that your cat is dying and what you can do to support them.
Changes in Appetite and Thirst
A noticeable change in eating and drinking is one of the most common signs that a cat is nearing the end of their life. Cats that are unwell may:
- Stop eating entirely or only nibble at their food
- Show no interest in treats or favorite foods
- Drink significantly less water, leading to dehydration
- Have trouble swallowing or chewing
If your cat refuses food for more than a day, it’s a sign their body may be shutting down. Providing easy-to-eat meals or offering water through a syringe may help, but at this stage, forcing food may not be beneficial.
Extreme Weakness and Fatigue
As cats approach the end of their lives, they often become extremely weak and lethargic. They may sleep almost all day, moving only when absolutely necessary. While cats naturally love to nap, you know your pet best—if their sleep patterns seem excessive, it’s important to consult your vet. You may also notice your cat struggling to stand or walk, hiding in quiet places, or losing interest in interactions with you and other pets.
Labored Breathing and Respiratory Changes
As a cat’s body weakens, their breathing patterns may change. Signs of respiratory distress include:
- Shallow, rapid breathing
- Slow, deep breaths with long pauses in between
- Gasping or open-mouth breathing (this is an emergency sign)
- Unusual sounds when breathing, like wheezing or gurgling
These changes suggest that their organs are shutting down, and they may be experiencing discomfort.
Loss of Bladder and Bowel Control
Many cats lose control of their bladder and bowels in their final days. They may urinate or defecate while lying down, struggle to get to the litter box, or experience constipation or diarrhea. You might also notice a stronger odor due to kidney or liver failure. Keeping your cat clean and providing soft bedding can help maintain their comfort and dignity during this time.
Noticeable Weight Loss and Muscle Wasting
Severe weight loss is a common sign of terminal illness or old age. Your cat may appear:
- Very thin, with bones more prominent
- Weak and frail, losing muscle tone
- Dull or unkempt fur, as they stop grooming
Even if they eat small amounts, their body may no longer absorb nutrients effectively.
Unusual Behavior or Personality Changes
Cats often withdraw when they are close to passing. Some may hide under furniture or in closets, while others may become more clingy, seeking constant companionship. You might also notice increased irritability or aggression, even in normally gentle cats. If your cat suddenly stops showing interest in favorite activities like playing or cuddling, it could be a sign that they are uncomfortable or in pain.
Body Temperature Drops
A cat’s normal body temperature is between 100.5 – 102.5°F. If their body is shutting down, their temperature may drop below 100°F, and their paws and ears may feel cold.
Using a warm blanket or heating pad on a low setting can help provide comfort.
Seizures or Disorientation
In the final stages, some cats experience neurological symptoms such as:
- Seizures
- Stumbling or loss of coordination
- Vacant staring or confusion
- Head pressing against walls or furniture
These signs indicate that their brain function is deteriorating, which may require putting them in their carrier for their safety and getting veterinary attention.
How to Comfort a Dying Cat
If you recognize these signs, the best thing you can do is offer love, comfort, and gentle care. Here’s how:
- Create a peaceful space—Provide a quiet, cozy area with soft bedding.
- Keep them warm—Use blankets or a heating pad (on a low setting).
- Offer water—Keep a small dish nearby or use a syringe if they will accept it.
- Let them rest—Avoid disturbing them unnecessarily.
- Talk to your vet—Euthanasia may be the most humane option if they are in pain.
When to Consider Euthanasia
Choosing euthanasia is never easy, but if your cat is suffering, in pain, or struggling to breathe, it may be the kindest option. A veterinarian can assess their condition and help you make the best decision for your beloved pet.
At Westmonte Animal Clinic, we are here to support you through this difficult time with compassionate end-of-life care. If you need guidance, please don’t hesitate to reach out. If you need support, contact Westmonte Animal Clinic today.
